Between black and white are not shades of grey...

Had a bit of a revelation today about life in general. Gonna write it down because a) I want to remember it, and b) it may be relevant to some of the situations going on with some of my friends out there.

I would like to stress though that, even though I say "you" in this post, I'm not talking TO anybody in particular but myself. I am not trying to convince anybody of anything. To force anybody to make any decisions about anything. Today I had a realization and maybe it might help you. Or it might not. If it doesn't, don't be offended. Just move on to the next friend's post.

( And all the pondering is behind this cut )